I've been pouring my heart out with high effort posts, talking a lot about me and how great I am, and what I offer these last few months with really nothing to show for it. Obviously, doing this behind my SO's back is going to turn most people away and I understand that.

Is there anyone out there that is actually turned on by being the side piece or is just curious what it's like to do something bad, even just once? I'm definitely a good candidate for such a person. Despite chasing after something morally and ethically bankrupt on here, I'm a healthcare professional with a normal head on his shoulders.

I'm well spoken and well written. Capable of carrying a conversation and make you laugh, can give you great song recommendations for your playlist(s) especially if you're into hip-hop/RnB, a top tier cuddler, and a cute discreet coffee date. I mention all these things because I'm more than just someone looking for sex, I could be a really chill, hot, friend when not engaging in those activities and I'm looking for the same as well.

My look: I'm South Asian 6'0, 188 lbs, lightly tanned, bearded, short hair, and fit. My facial features and complexion appear more Middle Eastern, Persian, or North African. I take care of my appearance, hygiene, and grooming very well. I lift 6 days a week and that keeps me in good shape. Others I've spoken to on here have said I'm conventionally attractive but I am happy to share pics once we talk a little bit.

Looking for:
- Someone that takes care of their appearance, meaning fit or at least HWP.

- Not here to be picky about how old someone is, I'm not attracted to a number.

- Able to meet in person eventually and communicate well enough to set such a thing up.

- Someone who isn't trying to sell an OF subscription or sex itself, please don't waste my time.