Hi. I’m still looking for the right Dom… I am new to the lifestyle and still figuring out what I need. I posted recently and even though I got some promising responses they ended up fizzling out.

I’m married and no they don’t know. I would need discretion. That being said, I have to have the ability to see you in person sometimes… please don’t respond if you are not within a ~2hrs drive of SW Ohio. I can’t host at home but I will find a solution if you are putting in the effort to see me.

As I mentioned, I’m new to this, so I need an experienced Dom to lead me, preferably someone with in person experience not just online. I want daily communication, tasks with meaning, and a personal connection… so far most interactions I’ve had quickly turn into constant requests for nudes and no real meaning or thought behind the tasks… I am looking for much more than that.

I need a Dom that is willing to take on all of me. True submission is my goal but I need to know I’m safe with you, which means we have to take time to build trust. I get most of this is about sex but to have a deeper connection within the dynamic is the only way I can give that gift.

My preference is that you be 5’11 or taller, decent looking, somewhat in shape, and a bit of a sadist. The height thing is important to me, don’t reach out if you are 5’9 or under. Yes, that includes messaging me to tell me I’m a dumb bitch for preferring taller men, though if it makes you feel better only takes a moment to delete I suppose.

Hard limits are degradation (most forms), no edge stuff like blood or potty play, no age play, and I’m not into high protocol play. Humiliation is also not my thing.

Pain, however, is… I love spankings, paddling, clamps, hair pulling, and slapping. I love breath play, whatever form that takes. I need you to be rough and hard with me. I’m open to anal and face fucking but would need time and training… it’s been a long time.

I love public sex, I am a bit of an exhibitionist. I am curious about free use especially in this context, but no experience in it.

I don’t mind if you have other subs as long as you have enough time for me. Honestly, I would love to have girlfriends to talk to about all of this so if your other subs were open to that it would be nice for me.

I am a pretty clean cut person, very feminine… I wear lots of dresses and work an office job. I am very buttoned up at work and no one would ever believe I am into the kinky shit that I love. I am a shade under 5’5, with a good figure, brown hair, and light colored eyes. Happy to trade pics.

For my hobbies I like to read, cook, and do yoga. I do read smut but do my best to read books of substance as well. Cooking is the best way for me to relax and also my love language… I love cooking someone a stellar meal.

If you’re interested please reach out… attraction is very important so please be willing to exchange photos early so we don’t waste each other’s time. If I am not your type it will not offend me, and we can both move on to find a better fit.

If you do reach out, please tell me your preferred honorific and your favorite home cooked meal… just on the off chance I might get to cook it for you one day.