Bottom line: I just want to find my "special someone." Someone who makes my heart smile and I can make his heart soar with happiness, in return. I want to receive affection & goodness, I'd really like to shower my guy with affection too. I want to make my Dom feel just as special and cared for as he makes me feel. I very much believe in things being equal. You would be my partner and (if it exists for me) my soulmate. To that end, yes, I'd like to be able to move from online to irl.

Me: I'm a sub-leaning switch, African American woman, hazel eyes, very busty, curvy build. I do consider myself to be a spicy sub, as I do not like the term brat. Spicy just means that I very much enjoy giving my Dom push back until he's backed into a corner and there's no other option left but for me to submit. Consider it building the tension. That said, with the right person, I will always recognize when there are times where being spicy is not appropriate & a more "meek" sub approach is needed. Everything must be earned though. My submission, my time, my affection — earn that shit & don't expect obedience because you throw a couple of lines at me that you've thrown to other women. Know that I am my own person, I'm not mindless, & I will not be obscenely subservient. As a switch, I would love to have a Dom who will allow me to Domme him as well (though this won't occur as often). Please be open minded. My kinks: LOVE CNC, Daddy-daughter play, degradation, mindfucking.

You: Must be single, between ages 32-42, no kids, mature, respectful, progressive, compassionate, 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞, sensitive, funny, intelligent, Dom who is 𝐜𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 & 𝐬𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. You are also socially aware, which means no sexism or racism will be tolerated. 𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞, 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐦𝐞.

Life is not just about sex. Would I love to find a kinky Dom? Hell yeah. But please know that our conversations will not revolve around this. I hope to find a well-rounded man with whom I can build a deeper & genuine connection with. Happy searching, everyone 💖,