This will be a bit of a read so I apologize in advance for the novel but you know, detail is important. I am 32 year old Male Dom/Daddy from Central Canada looking for a submissive Woman of any experience level interested in an online dynamic for the short or long term. Maybe more if we like each other and goals and such are in line.
To be more specific, I'm looking for a woman who enjoys control and structure. A woman who wants to be told what to do, and enjoys pleasing her Dom in both sexual and non-sexual ways. With the praise and positive attention that comes with it. Whether you need rules, routines, and instruction to keep you focused, or simply want an outlet for your sexual energy.
Teasing my sub and testing her self control through Orgasm Control, Rules, and even Exhibitionism are big ones for me. The former by enabling more play, adding a new twist to something she knows, or setting a goal to reach. Both at home and in more public settings if she is comfortable in the case of the latter.
The second is teaching and I've been told I'm fairly good at it. I take patience and safety seriously as I teach a woman something new, or teach her something properly that she had a negative experience with. Anal being the most common, it seems.
The last big one is Wardrobe Control. I like to have my sub dress with easy access in mind. From wearing specific clothes, little clothing, or nothing at all when appropriate. Ownership comes into play here as well with a lighter form of collaring, body writing, and even a form of TPE more geared toward online play.
•Age: Beyond being at least 18 years old age is irrelevant. Doesn't matter if you're younger or older than me.
•Experience: Largely irrelevant. I've had young and inexperienced women, older and experienced women, and any combination in between. It really isn't an issue if you're new regardless of your age.
•Obedient: I'm not much of a brat tamer but don't mind brats as long as they don't need to be fought constantly and are obedient for the most part.
•Physical Shape: Slim/average/fit build, no more than 160lbs/72kg if you need a number and it's flexible.
•Availability: You don't need to be free 24/7 or have complete privacy but you do need enough that it feels fair.
•Location: Being from the same side of the world is a bonus but it's fine if you're not. I've had subs from the UK to Russia and things worked out surprisingly well given the time difference.
•Comfortable With Nudes/Nudity: I enjoy my subs body whether she's clothed or not and they're a way to show she did as told. Face doesn't need to be seen.
My Kinks in no particular order: Anal, Feet, Power Exchange, Rules/Tasks, Wardrobe Control, Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, Collaring, Pet Play, Panties/Lingerie(?), Orgasm Control, Squirting/Watersports
My Limits in no particular order: Knife Play/Blood/Wounds, Breath Play, Humiliation, Heavy Degradation, Heavy Punishment
Lastly but most importantly, aftercare. Whether you're a Princess or a Slut you will need aftercare. Being used is good and can feel great, but not in a way that you feel like a toy who's only use is short term entertainment to be abandoned. You will have praise, encouragement, validation, and a safe space to talk and share without being judged or dismissed and made to feel like your feelings don't matter.
I have a thing for redheads, pale skin, and petite women. If any of those apply to you it's a bonus.
If you're interested feel free to message me and we can talk more and see if we mesh well. Open with your age, current time, and favourite colour.
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