Highly educated professional gentleman in search of a Domme for an in-person dynamic. I am very experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. While I have been leaning dominant since a young age, I have relatively recently discovered the joys of serving, and I believe that this may be my true calling at this stage of my life. My main kinks are orgasm control, chastity, denial, and worshipping. I dream of being in permanent chastity, teased and denied to my Domme’s full satisfaction, and only getting the occasional ruined orgasm after much begging and multiple acts of service. In any case, I am into a lot of other kinky activities (bondage, discipline, humiliation, just to name a few), but am more interested in your kinks than mines, as I feel it should be. I have few hard limits and other soft limits that I’d be happy to discuss in a private conversation. The bottom line is that I know very well what it means and what it takes to serve, and I am very eager to find someone to submit to unconditionally.

With that being said, I am not going to submit to just about anyone but to the right person. Specifically I am looking for a lady who:

-Is confident, knowledgeable about D/s dynamics, has experience, is familiar with safety protocols, and is able to handle things both physically and emotionally. Someone who is able to enforce rules and discipline, who can be stern and at times even cruel, but also doesn’t hesitate to praise when praise is deserved.

-Is reasonably local to me. In my experience D/s dynamics work best when there is regular in-person contact. While I am very much aware that it’s hard to find a match in general, let alone next door, I know that I need someone I can meet with a certain frequency. This means that my ideal match would be based in MA, RI, or southern NH or ME

-Is able to host. While this is not a deal breaker, it would make things a lot easier. I’d be happy to discuss the reasons for this in private.

-Is younger than me, but not necessarily dramatically so. I am in a position of authority in my daily life and an age gap (even a slight one) would add to the feeling of humiliation and is part of my kink.

-Is reasonably attractive to me. I can only submit to someone that I find attractive. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so not much else I can add to this in abstract terms.

-Is not a professional Domme. While you would have my full attention and unwavering devotion, I have no desire to deal with anyone looking for monetary compensation. I need to see you as a person to be pleased, and not as a mere kink dispenser.

Other than that, I will just add that I am safe, sane, healthy, laid back, well balanced, and have a wicked sense of humor (if that matters).

Personal messages are preferred to chat requests.

Looking forward to hearing from you.