Hi there!

I'm looking for someone who - can be a long-term, online friends with benefits - wants to chat and flirt and sext and, after a few months of getting to know eachother, maybe have phone calls and video calls - is ok with ethical non-monogomy - enjoys and can maintain multi-topic conversations with decent grammar - has the patience to wait for me to get comfortable enough to open up - can talk fairly consistently - wants to have feelings and be excited about eachother, but not feel the need to escalate - leans dominant in the bedroom - can tell a descriptive story when my hands are "busy" - Isn't going to hurt anyone by messaging me (i.e. an unknowing spouse) - BONUS: has decent enough taste in music to do daily music exchanges

I am - 31/F/CST - In a happy, long-term relationship practicing ENM - a big music lover - an overthinker - usually bored if the conversation gets too slow - a nature lover - interested in learning, especially about science, but have a shit memory - guilty of binge watching tv - not much of a gamer, save a few games - left leaning - trying to read more - a mild masochist among other things - a curious person who asks a lot of questions - occassionally restless beyond logic - an optomistic nihilist

Sooo if you've made it all the way down to here and you're interested, feel free to send me a chat (if you dm me, I will ask you to send a chat) and kick it off by telling me about yourself, your highs and lows of today, and three songs you're loving right now. I would also love if you could include your age, general location, and, if you find it relevant, gender.

I ask your patience for my responses in the first weeks while I figure out who I vibe with over time. I will not be responding to everyone I want to immediately as its hard to find high quality with such high quantity, but I do plan to get to you! Low effort responses will likely be ignored.