I'm a very kinky and highly sexual poly married submissive milf. I'm looking for a long term romantic dynamic with a Dom to bring out the best slut in me and help me be the best version of myself.

A bit about me: I work from home. (I play with myself while on zoom) I am very nerdy and love star wars especially. I am a former teacher. I have preteen kids and I've been married for 14 years. (He will not be involved in this relationship )

I have a laundry list of kinks but my top 5 would be: 1. Public sex/play 2. Freeuse 3. Anal 4. Watersports 5. Hole stretching

What I am looking for: A nerdy intelligent man who is just as kinky as me. He has a very high libido and can and wants to fuck often. He is interested in making me cum just as much as he cums. Cock larger than 6inches. Age range 28-45. Firm well informed Dom who won't put up with my bullshit and is willing to engage sexually with me through text consistently throughout the day. Would love for him to be local but not 100% necessary as long as he is down for a few sex filled trips together. Bonus points for a good beard and/or tattoos.

What I hopefully want the dynamic to look like: Consistent daily tasks. Keep me horny all the time. Goal of turning me into a huge slut. Encourage me to continue my weight loss (I've already lost 100 lbs in the last year) turning me into the perfect looking sub. Using me as often as possible (working around my family life and job) multiple orgasms daily for both of us.

Limits: no shit or ass to mouth, no blood, no needles, no knife or gun play, no electricity, no fire, no tickling, no puking or forced gagging on a cock, no mentioning my weight or size as humiliation, no comparing me to livestock, no enclosed spaces (claustrophobic), Choosing underwear and lingerie is fine but my clothes are mine to choose.