Hi there, thanks for reading - I know you’ve got options around here :)

I am a regular business traveler to SF, coming monthly in 4-5 day increments with some weekend stay overs. Because I’m here often enough, I’m in a place where I’d like to develop an ongoing, long term friendship with a likeminded person. I will next be in town Weds Nov 29 - Sat Dec 1 and am staying at the Four Seasons downtown.

I am in an open relationship so you should be okay with that. It doesn’t work for everyone but it works for us - our rule is to never bring drama or disease home, so safe fun is sexy fun. Ideally you’re single or in an open / poly relationship also. I don’t have a preference on age, to me it’s more about how we connect in our time leading up to my visit that sets the tone for the in-person connection.

I am tall (6ft4) so come climb me like a tree. 200lbs so HWP and lean enough but certainly softer than I was 5 years ago. I am a sane, respectful person. Handsome, bearded, generously endowed. I am drug, disease, and drama free and ask that you be also (420 doesn’t count).

I’m looking for sparks of excitement and conversation, someone whose messages I look forward to. If you can hold a conversation, are intelligent and warm, I’d love to hear from you. Looking for a combination of friendship and passion. Casual conversations to teasing fun to serious topics & steamy texts.

Sexually I am high-drive and adventurous. Passionate and energetic. I’m a firm believer that whatever happens between consenting adults is all in good fun and people should be free to explore their needs and kinks in a safe space. I’m all about playful exploration, so feel free to come to me with any wants or needs, knowing that I’m an open mind who respects boundaries but also appreciates roughness when the ebb and flow of play requires it. Vanilla fun is also great :)

If this speaks to you, please turn that little chat bubble red and let’s see what we can make happen. You can also find me on Telegram (same user name) since reddit chat is 100% terrible.

Good luck out there.