Hey there strangers! I'm currently in a (one-sided ENM) open relationship with my life partner. If you don't know what that means, basically my partner lets me have sex with other people and is aware of everything I do in that regard. Anyway, I'm looking for someone to get to know and explore with sexually. Preferably it would become a long term "friends with benefits" type situation, but hookups are also fine. I love sex overall, and I would ideally like to explore my kinks / BDSM with the right person. I'm a dom / sadist when it comes to that lifestyle, and a pure top when it comes to other men. Don't get me wrong though, I'm not just searching for kinksters! Vanilla sex is great too! I live in Clifton, NJ, and am willing to travel a reasonable distance. Feel free to DM me if you're interested! ☺️

Requirements

I am looking for IRL connections within reasonable driving distance of Clifton, NJ. I will probably not travel into NYC. Also, I can not host, but am more than willing to split a hotel room if it comes to that. I consider myself bisexual, and am attracted to femininity. This means I am into most biological women, feminine men, and feminine trans women. I respect all sexualities and genders, this is just what I personally find attractive.❤️

For Women: Age, height, weight, ethnicity, and disabiltiy status don't really matter to me. As long as you're of legal age and have a hole to get fucked! 🤣 I can appreciate beauty and sexuality in many forms. Whether or not you have a vagina, or a penis, or even a lower torso...it doesn't matter to me! I mentioned earlier that I am attracted to femininity. This is true, but don't think that means you to have to be ultra feminine! As long as I can somewhat discern you as female through physical features, I am interested!

For Men: I am much more picky when it comes to men. Masculinity is a big turn off for me when it comes to guys. I prefer slim, feminine men. Call them what you will. Twinks, femboys, whatever. I am attracted to them all! Even feminine, passable cross-dressing guys do it for me. I actually haven't been with a man yet, but I look forward to it!

Stats

Age: 34

Height: 5' 6"

Weight: 230 lbs

Body type: Chubby and somewhat hairy

Cock size: 5 inches

Ethnicity: White (olivey skinned European)

Location: Clifton, NJ

SFW Interests

Anime, western animation, video games, movies, music, collection hobbies, learning, science, astronomy, physics, history, politics, the paranormal, and pretty much anything strange or unusual.

NSFW Interests

I have a pretty high sex drive. I love to fuck, whether it's vanilla or kinky. That being said, I do have a list of kinks that I would enjoy exploring more:

Kinks: domination, sadism, degradation, humiliation, breathplay, watersports

Just curious about: CNC, exhibitionism, TPE

Hard limits: scat, blood, me being submissive

As I stated before, I'm a dom / sadist when it comes to BDSM, and a pure top when it comes to other men. If there is a kink / fetish you have which is not on my list of hard limits, I may be willing to explore it a little. I do not kink shame, so don't be shy! 😁