I'm wrestling with some new and steadily intensifying kinks, most notably bimbofication and a dash of pet play. They are primarily an escape for me; my real life as a college student with a packed schedule is stressful and I've found recently that these kinks are effective in letting me temporarily let all of that go, and because of that I've begun to indulge in them more. I don't want to be a bimbo in real life (for many reasons), but the fantasy has become compelling and somewhat intoxicating. Even addicting. Sometimes I say I don't want to be a bimbo, but I also really, really do. Ugh.

As I've indulged, I've transitioned from (at first) chatting about them and discussing silly things like hypnosis and so on to a genuine curiosity in how women begin to conform to this kink themselves. I personally think it has a lot to do with attention, because I've felt my own desire for attention go up as I've indulged in the kink. I can see women beginning to seek more and more attention and modifying their behavior and eventually mental state to more effectively reach that goal. I've even had a few experiences that let that cycle play out in my own head and it was very compelling and somewhat why I want to talk about it.

When I think about that "conformity" aspect to the whole thing I often think of Hooters too; I had an experience wearing the outfit which was one of the closest things I've had IRL to living out a kink. I've been fixated a bit on that outfit ever since, and how all the women have the same behavior, the same smiles, come to enjoy being in the outfit, etc. All for attention and tips. It's cerebral and hot to me. The gist of it is that it's almost like a bimbo training camp, a gateway to the lifestyle the girl may or may not have been expecting but fell into anyways through attention and praise and adoration (and tips).

I've also become more interested in the whole "egirl" aesthetic, even admiring some girls who have embraced that look in their online presence. It activates similar kinky feels in me somehow, so that's also a potential topic of discussion. I've followed a good number of women on Instagram and Reddit who conform to the bimbo or egirl look, so I'm honestly saturated with the kink on a daily basis now which only makes it more intense and compelling.

As for an exact topic to discuss, I leave it fairly open-ended. Don't be surprised if I'm just not interested in what you have to say; it's not meant as an insult to you, just that I rarely find a genuinely compelling discussion on this matter but those that I have found were really helpful and eye-opening so I still feel the urge to seek them out. I'll give you some idea of my kinks and limits below just so you know what you're dealing with at the outset.

I do intend this to be a hot conversation, so I think it would be best for me if you were an older man or woman. Older, and dominant. Lead me, feed me attention, help me to explore these feelings. That's really what I'm looking for: a safe space with someone articulate and older and relatively gentle to put me in a fun headspace. Please do not be overly lewd or use bad grammar, especially in your first messages. I just won't respond. I'm not looking for someone to tell me how much they want to fuck a big titted bimbo and how women/bimbos exist only to serve men or anything like that. I put that in bold because like 70% of the responses I get involve that, so if that's your instinct please just don't talk to me. I'm looking for something more gentle, more cerebral, more "real".

Additionally, please have something more interesting to add than "hurr durr have you considered dressing more slutty". Crazy how many of you try to mansplain my own kinks to me. Oh, and please no obviously fake fantasy porn stories about how you "made your ex into a bimbo" or whatever. I will not even bother to respond unless I feel like mocking you for being pathetic. If you don't have anything interesting to talk about and just want to jump into your wank fantasy, please move along.

Also please do not demand details of what I look like and do not ask for pictures. And do not tell me what you look like; I do not care at all how massive your dick is and how "muscular" you are, and I probably won't respond. If you ask for pictures I will immediately stop responding. These things just indicate you don't understand what I'm looking for: I want to stay in the mental realm and I am not looking for a more personal connection. I'm a cis woman, 21/f, and my name is Olivia. That's all you need to know unless we get to know each other very well.

Oh, and if you look at my profile and decide to respond to one of my other prompts, please keep that prompt separate from this one. I know what I like and there is some connective tissue between the topics (like with just about anyone's kinks) but I'm not interested in combining them or the eleventy millionth Reddit pop psychology male take about why I have the set of kinks I do. Please, just pick a topic and stick with it.

I also recently learned about Bambi Sleep, so if you are familiar with that I'm open to discussing that as well.

Thanks for reading this far, hope to talk to some of you soon!

Kinks: really anything mental/cerebral, bimbos, transformation, IQ reduction, pet play, ddlg, mind control, brainwashing, corruption, dubcon, hucow

Limits: anal, anything anal-adjacent (like rimming), body fluids other than spit and cum, physical torture/sadism (edging/denial is fine)