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I’m exploring my submissive side and looking for an experienced dominant who values connection, guidance, mutual growth and wants to build an ONLINE DYNAMIC. As someone who is curious and open-minded, I’m hoping to build a dynamic rooted in communication, trust, and respect.

I’m not seeking a TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationship, but I do appreciate structure and thrive with routines or tasks that enhance both my personal and sexual dynamics. Safety, patience, and understanding are key qualities I value in a dominant. Ideally, I’d like to explore various aspects of BDSM together in a way that fosters a fulfilling experience for us both. I'd prefer a Dom 30 , in the same timezone as me (EST), but open to anyone as long as scheduling works for both of us as it’s important to me to have regular daily communication. I am looking for a Dom who has the time and desire for a dynamic. I need a Dom that understands the importance of aftercare and talking through any elements that are challenging. Someone who understands how to not only give orders and tasks, but how to lead us both to fulfillment. I don’t want a dynamic that feels like fantasy but you should be able to talk and coach us both through to an orgasm using your imagination. Additionally, I am only looking for someone who is unmarried or uncommitted, Im not interested in anyone in a poly-dymamic.

As a submissive, I embody an eagerness to learn, a genuine desire to serve, and a strong commitment to fostering open and transparent communication about boundaries, limits, and desires. I believe that submission is not just about obedience but about creating a deep, trusting partnership where I can fully explore my role while supporting my Dom's leadership. For the right Dom, I am prepared to surrender control over my orgasms, allowing that power to deepen our dynamic and trust. I am also dedicated to self-improvement and personal growth through daily tasks and challenges designed to enhance my qualities as a submissive. These acts are not just gestures of obedience but also demonstrations of my devotion and desire to serve meaningfully. In my previous dynamic, my former Dom expressed that he'd never felt more in control than when I fully entrusted myself to him—mind, body, and spirit. That trust and surrender formed the foundation of a dynamic that was not only deeply fulfilling for both of us. 

My Kink List (not exhaustive, but the main ones i enjoy):

• Orgasm control (edging and denial)
• Light degradation and humiliation
• Exhibitionism
• Light anal play (plugs, fingers)
• Praise

My Boundaries and Limits:

• I’m looking to take things slow and ensure that both parties are comfortable at every step.
• Hard limits: Anything involving most bodily fluids (scat, blood, etc), Caning, Electric Play, Knife Play
• Semi-hard limit: Showing my face immediately, I want to make sure I am protecting myself and so won’t be willing to show my face until I feel like trust has been established 

Next Steps:
If you feel we could be a good fit, please send me a thoughtful message sharing a bit about yourself, your experience, and what you’re looking for in a dynamic. Messages that show effort and consideration will definitely catch my attention.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I look forward to connecting! <3