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[F4M] What if you were in control?
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ChloeEver is a female looking for a male
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Domination, in essence, is about control. Controlling how your submissive feels, how they act, and what they are and aren't allowed to do. Usually in BDSM, that control is limited to the bedroom, limited to sex, and in general both parties already know what it will entail.

What if, though, that wasn't all you had control over? What if you not only had authority over your submissive's sexual life, but her bladder, sleep, what she ate, or even if she was allowed to eat? What if she was completely dependent on you, if your word was law? You could decide to be merciful and let her eat and sleep as she pleased, or... you could be fun!

This is the type of dynamic I wanna talk about with someone! I wanna talk about any and all ideas you have to make it more fun, how you would go about controlling your poor little sub, and everything else you could think of! What rules would you set? Do you think it would be a caring relationship or one of torment for your entertainment?

There are, by the definition of this type of dynamic, an unimaginable number of ways it could go! You could assign tasks to be allowed certain privileges, you could punish more harshly than most dynamics would allow, the rewards given to your sub would be all the sweeter... think of the benefits!

Personally, I love the idea of it being a sort of caring dynamic. I like the idea of someone dominant using these tools to mold and educate their submissive, to force them to conform to their idea of a perfect submissive or endure harsh consequences. That's not to say you couldn't have your fun, though... after all, part of being the perfect sub is pleasing your master!

A purely torment-based dynamic would be fun in the short-term, but I don't see that as realistically sustainable. That's the beauty of fantasy, though! Who needs food anyway, right? Sleep? For the weak! Then again, I do still feel like this method of control is less fun in all... but it does sound tempting!

So, if you wanna talk about this awfully specific idea, please send me a chat! Here's my Kinklist ( https://imgur.com/XyejPj6 ) of things I find very fun in fantasy if you wanna take a gander, and I look forward to your message and the very enticing chat that may come of it!

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