I’ve been married for over ten years now, and I’ll be honest with you: I’m bored. Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife and the life that we’ve built together, but I desperately miss the flame of newfound lust that lit our early relationship on fire. That animal need, that carnal desire to devour each others’ bodies on sight. Making an illicit booty call, bagging off responsibilities in favour of fucking, slipping away from a party for a sneaky blowjob; we never seem to make time for the naughty stuff any more.

More and more, I find myself thinking about what it would be like to have an affair. A sexy fling with a pretty young thing who craves the attention and experience that an older man brings to the bedroom. Or with a woman my age, beautiful in her own right, but stuck with a husband who pays more attention to his golf game than to her, and who needs to be reminded that she’s a sexual being deserving of desire.

We’d be honest about the nature of our arrangement, of course. I’m not interested in losing all that I’ve built and neither is she; we just need to shake things up, to feel alive again, to want and feel wanted. Lustful text exchanges would hold us over until we found the time to steal away and indulge in sweet passion and selfish pleasure before returning to the drudgery of everyday life.

And so I’m looking for a partner to chat about the affair that I’ll never have. Let’s explore our kinks and desires, chat about what turns us on, get each other riled up with teasing messages, maybe even share a sneaky picture or two once a mutual trust has been established. I’d like this to be a long term thing, maybe just a few teasing messages a day, punctuated by longer sexting sessions when we both have time.

Please be sane, located in North America, literate, and imaginative. I’ll be the same for you. My kinks list is broad, and nothing is off the table besides blood, animals, and minors, but my favourites include lingerie, anal play, bodily fluids, and oral sex. I’m open minded and looking forward to hearing about yours and finding some shared middle ground that we can explore together.

Hope to hear from you soon, Jon