How do you feel about cum? I want to know.

If you like it, I think I'll like chatting with you about it.

If you don't like it, I think I'll find your perspective valuable and informative.

While I enjoy a strong D/s dynamic, I am a very agreeable person. This makes it a cruel twist that my biggest kink is cumplay. Let me tell you a little bit about what I like, and a little bit about what my problem is. From you, I would like to learn your own feelings about this kink; any past experiences you've had with it; respectful ways a partner could approach discussing this kink with you, etc.

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WHAT DO I MEAN BY CUMPLAY?

^{Disclaimer, I am not interested in playing with my own cum.}

I am interested in:

• a partner who views my cum as a reward for her efforts
• a partner who loves to let me cum anywhere inside or on their body
• a partner who will happily 'perform' for me, smearing my cum around and licking up every drop
• a partner who will happily continue to stroke and suck my cock after I cum, gently and patiently

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WHAT IS MY PROBLEM?

• Obviously I am a hypocrite for wanting a partner who loves my cum, while not having any particular passion for it, personally.
• Because my biggest kink arises *after* I cum, this means that I am at my least dominant. If I detect that my partner is not actually enjoying themselves and is just humouring me, I would rather just have them clean up and cuddle. For this reason, I struggle to raise this kink with partners because I struggle to believe they'll like it and I fear the awkwardness of them trying to do it for me, but it just making us both uncomfortable.
• There is plenty of porn involving cum, but usually it ends right after the money shot. This makes me think that, while many men like to see a woman with cum on her, not many want to see her playing with it and licking it up. This makes me think that my kink is *almost* common, but actually much more extreme than is normal.
• I have anxiety around pregnancy, ironically PIV creampies are the least arousing way to cum, even though they seem like they *should* be the *most* arousing option, evolutionarily.
• I can barely discuss this with women I'm sleeping with, let alone female friends. So I turn to strangers on the internet in order to broaden my own perspective and get some honest feedback.

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WHAT DO I WANT FROM YOU?

I enjoy steamy discussions of mutual kinks, but I doubt most women love cum, so I would like to also hear from you even if you are ambivalent or against cumplay. I want to understand what this kink looks like from the receiving end, what elements of it can appeal to the woman, and what elements can be confronting/unpleasant for the woman?