This is a conversation between myself and another cocky, competitive, middle-aged straight male. Looking for a fellow challenger in their 40s or older, preferably married or in a relationship.  The goal is to deny and control each other’s cum until our partners make themselves available for coupling.  My wife’s interest has been in steady decline, making relations much less frequent than they used to be.  My dick starts to throb and my balls begin to ache making me think about jerking off to relieve the frustration.  I tell myself, “No!”  I want to prove I’m the boss of my urges and the master of my domain.  I would do even better if I allowed another man in a similar situation to decide how long I must endure when my wife is showing no interest in the bedroom.  Do you want to save it for your wife too, Pal?  Then I can do the same for you as we test each other’s determination and strength of will.  Please note, I’m not into being instructed on what kind of porn to watch.  But if there does happen to be a discussion of porn, it will only involve clearly mature, legally consenting adults over 30 years of age.  I’m also not into being given hours of daily edging chores.  If one of us does decide to edge, there can be an agreement to obtain permission from the other first.  When ejaculation is eventually earned and warranted, the method of masturbation must be submitted for approval.   Basically, we’ll monitor how, when, where and how much we’re allowed to play with our own dicks outside the marriage bed.  But there will be no relief until it’s either with our wives or by letting another straight man make the decision. Please state your age.

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