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[F4M] Have you ever had functional sex? (practical sex, e.g. for procreation/to conceive, maintenance, apology, etcetera) (longer conversations in Dutch or English)
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zachtleven is a female looking for a male
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Sometimes sex isn't just for sex, for pleasure or for lust but for different kinds of reasons. Reasons like procreation/to get pregnant. I'd like to talk about that kind of sex, I think it's interesting. What makes it different? Is it still pleasureable for you or perhaps even more so than normal? What do you like about it and do you miss it? Do you currently have it?

Sex should only happen when both are wholly into it is the norm we have today. But is that really realistic? I don't think so. There are lots of reasons to have sex without both having to be in the mood. Usually the male half of a relationship has a lot higher libido anway. But sometimes you need to have sex not for pleasure but for different reasons. To make up after a fight? When you try to conceive? Boredom? I think to conceive is the most common one but I like to talk about functional sex in general. About the practical reasons there are. About sex being much more orgasm driven than lust driven.

I have an interest in a more practical view on sex and I'd like to talk about it. I prefer longer conversations. About me: I'm 24, I have a boyfriend, am from the Netherlands and I like to talk in either Dutch or English. I'm not interested at all in sexting, meeting or pictures.

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