I’m looking for someone who enjoys the objectification kink, someone aroused by the idea of being looked at and treated like just a sex object.

I don’t mean objectifying women as in looking at random women and judging how attractive they are. When I talk about the objectification kink, I mean thinking of a particular woman as nothing more than a sex object. To dehumanize her to the maximum extent possible and treat her as a simple set of holes for carnal pleasure.

In my definition, to be objectified means having her agency, as a person, completely removed, in so far that she assumes the role of a passive object. She neither expresses her will, opinion, nor takes any action. She’s still a submissive but succeeds by doing nothing.

In a scene, I feel like this plays out mainly on a mental level since none of what I do is unique to objectification play. Physically, it mainly amounts to rough sex with bondage and sensory deprivation. Thus, the heavy lifting is in the mental side of things. My sub should be made to understand the reason behind my actions when I tie her up, blindfold, and gag her. She, as an object, doesn’t need to see, speak, or do anything. I tell her as the scene starts, what she is and how she’ll be treated. I do it all in a way to reinforce the mindset of an object. When she’s in that object mindset, I don’t speak to her directly. From then on, everything I do is to satisfy my own desires.

I’m looking to chat with someone that connects with being objectified, who may or may not have experience with the kink, but still feels enticed to be a mindless object for someone else’s pleasure. I’d like to know your feelings surrounding it and how you feel an object should be.