Well here I am... in a place I never thought I'd be.... searching for something I never have before. I'm a 31 year old professional seeking a discreet ongoing fwb for fun in the bedroom and potentially outside it as well. I'm totally okay with and expect to take the time to get to know you... but if things get hot and we move quicker I'm ok with that as well. I work a full time job with sporadic hours so it's difficult to maintain a proper relationship. If I can't be a great boyfriend and give it my all then I rather not date. So thats why I'm here. As far as being discreet well I'm a private person who works in a small town. I hate people knowing or trying to know my business. I'm the kind of guy whose always dated and never done a fwb thing. So I just want to keep it hush hush until I'm ready. Hopefully you can understand that. I'm a fairly intelligent, laid back and friendly guy. I get along with most anyone and will probably get along well with you too. In the bedroom I'm a very passionate person and I aim to please. I'm huge on any kind of cuddling, touching, words of affirmation etc. Outside of the bedroom I enjoy anything outdoors. Hiking, biking, camping. Also love the less physical things like laying on the couch binging a tv show is also great. I love meeting people and getting to know them. If you can hold my attention through conversation with your wit/charm/sense of humor then you are golden. I'm a big believer in wanting the mind before the body. That being said I'm open to any and all body styles. I've found most any type attractive at one time or another. So if you aren't too pleased with yourself as far as looks... I say give it a chance anyways. Just because you don't like yourself doesn't mean I won't and if it doesnt work out we can always be friends. That all being said I do have my faults... I absolutely love sweets... I really need to learn to eat just one piece of chocolate but boy is it difficult! As far as looks I'm 5'10" (sorry I'm not 6'0" but I'm not gonna lie to you) green eyes, brown hair and more athletic body style. I'm more straight edge. I drink rarely and don't do drugs of any kind. I have no kids and am of course single. I drive, have my own place. I'm fairly good at adulting and hopefully you are too. Although my hours at work are ever changing I of course will make time for you no matter what if you do the same for me. Teamwork is important...so let's kick ass by communicating well. Anyways if any of this resonates with you please send a message/chat. Thanks!