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This post is for a woman who is tired of the games, fed up with lies and false intentions. This is for a woman craving a connection, a spark that's the catalyst to an affection-deprived soul soaked in gasoline.
Take a leap of faith and let's start an inferno.
Let me make something abundantly clear… I'm not here for sexting, nudes or a quickie. I'm above that. I seek a bond, a connection that makes reality feel like a dream. A lust that makes you throw your trepidation to the wind. A trust that makes you feel so safe, so comfortable and so wanted that you're able to be yourself. Unapologetically. I want to be the gentle hand extended, prepared to guide you through your desires and taboo cravings. I want to be the open arms, ready to embrace you after a difficult day. I want to be the fear in your heart when you break our rules. I want to be the the addiction you've always dreamed of. I want to be the warmth you can come home to and cuddle with. The naughty craving that you can't wait to enjoy when we meet next. I want to be the kiss that drowns out The world, making that moment feel like it's just the two of us.
Who am I? A 32 year old man, established, intelligent, handsome and hygienic. I'm absurdly strong and Dominant by nature.
I'm an engineer by day and a Daddydom by night. I'm a Soft / Pleasure Dominant and focus more on rewards and mental stimulation. Pleasure is my training tool of choice. I have 8 years experience with kink and love a wide variety of kinks. I'm quite accepting and open minded. So please don't shy away.
My kinks are broad but to focus on the center of the dynamic I am looking for: DDLG (sexual kink/ dynamic not regression), Petplay, Breeding, Soft S/M, orgasm control and I'd love to learn Shibari with someone who is comfortable laughing as we tie knots and learn together.
I'm known to be a friendly, charming and alluring man. I'm often the reason people around me feel safe and protected. I'm also old school as in, well mannered and don't tolerate BS. Especially disrespecting others.
My hobbies are pretty simple. Botany, Reading (fantasy, romance and smut), gaming (WoW, HD2, Cyberpunk, etc) and I'm a nerd so Tabletop games like MTG and DnD are some of my favorite social hobbies. I'd love to share hobbies with my sub and attempt some of her hobbies, even if I'm horrible at it. I'm also The man who proudly cooks and cleans because I'm just awesome like that.
Okay. Enough about me. Let's talk about you. I'm looking for someone with a desire to explore, to connect emotionally and mentally, a woman thats happy to serve and please. Ideally with a high sex drive (Whoa calm down, put the pitchforks and red flags down, I have a high sex drive, thus I connect well with a woman that shares that mental frequency.)
Communication plays a huge part in any relationship, but even more so in a dynamic. The ideal submissive understands this and appreciates that I place this as one of the fundamental pillars in our dynamic.
Commitment is a vital pillar in a dynamic. Being committed to your Dom and your role within the dynamic is so Important that it can be the difference between building and unbreakable relationships and making a bond made of tissue paper. I don't expect 24/7, but know I'll be there when it comes to real world problems but I'll also be there to nurture, train and correct you when the time calls for it.
I'm sure you have questions. Or concerns. Either or. If you're serious about this and want to take a leap of faith, message me. I'm also open to conversations and even spicy book recommendations.
Please note: If this post is still up, I am still open and searching.
I hope to hear from you.
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