I’m not sure how common it might be to have this happen in an otherwise platonic friendship but in my 20s I used to hang out with a little group of friends in NYC. We would have dinner parties, go see shows, etc. Nice friend group. We used to date outside of it but not within.

After one dinner I helped one of the women clean up. She had made a complicated meal with a ton of dishes and she was kind enough to host it. People were still there, but I was busy and did most of it. By the time I was finishing up most everyone had left. And my friend invited me to stay for a drink. We were talking about work then about a guy she had been seeing. I asked how was going and she was saying how he was from France and everything was different. We knew each other well enough that she could say at that moment “and I mean everything” and I got what she meant immediately. He was uncircumcised.

I said oh you’ve never before and she said no. I said do you not like it and she said it was fine just different. I said they work the same It’s just more skin. And she said it didn’t pull back and I said oh I know what you mean.

And I did know because I used to have a very tight foreskin and had to get circumcised right after high school. Painful in the short term but it was really uncomfortable - I’m girthy and my foreskin wouldn’t pull back over my head.

But I didn’t say this right away. She moved onto a different subject, but after a bit, she came back to it and asked me how do you know what I mean? That’s when I told her I was circumcised right after high school. And she sat up and asked why. I explained that it was uncomfortable and there wasn’t really anything I could do about it. I didn’t say that I was thick or had a big head, but she said her guy had a skinny dick and a tight skin - is that what you had? I said no I had a growth spurt and suddenly it was too tight for everything to work. And she said oh you’re big? I said yeah kind of. And she asked if it was painful, what it was like to tell my parents, if I told my sisters, stuff like that. How it felt different.

The conversation had definitely taken a turn. And she mentioned that she knew someone with pretty long labia who was thinking about having them trimmed off and that that was kind of similar. And I reacted and said oh no, that’s too bad because I think long labia are really hot.

Well, you can guess who she was really talking about. And when she said it was her I think I reacted so strongly and she could tell I was serious when I had said that I think they’re hot. And she asked me if I wanted to see and I said please. And she said I’ll show you mine. If you show me yours I asked if she was serious and she said yes. And then I said, are you sure because there’s no going back and she said yes.

I sat back and unbuckled my belt and unzipped my jeans and pulled them down a little and peeled my underwear back so she could see my cock. She said oh my God you’re so thick as I was getting hard. I asked her to please let me see her pussy and she sat across from me and pulled her dress up and slid her panties off.

She had amazing butterfly labia. Dark on the edges and pink inside. They were wrinkly and stretchy. She asked me if I liked it and I said yes and she looked at my dick and said I can tell. She said why don’t you do something about that?

So I started stroking myself while I was looking her in the eyes and then looking back down at her pussy. She let me touch it, she let me taste it, she let me see it for as long as I wanted.

And after I came she said she loved to watch videos of men jerking off and that she wanted to do this again. Our little secret.

It became a semi regular thing over the next few months and went on for years. So. Damn. Hot.