I’m a bit older, bi, & have had a lot of M/F partners, & have figured out various ways to control PE. This was one of the rare occasions I couldn’t control it. On occasion when I’m horny I get some type of internal body rush where I know I’m going to cum very easily / quickly. At this point there is no way to control it.

A while ago this happened to me. I was horny & met a guy online local just for kink & sex. This was my first meeting. I put in a pair of panties & normal clothes (I never wear panties) & headed to his place.

Despite being very turned on, the idea of wearing the panties was making it almost uncontrollable. I got to his place & right away he started groping me through clothes which got me even more excited. Maybe 10 mins later I find myself on his bed wearing nothing but the tight silky panties….

At this point my penis head is so sensitive & I feel the rush. I try to block it - I just can’t. So, I’m laying back & he is touching my legs & he sees the growing wet spot in the panties, which I can tell is turning him on. A few mins later he slowly starts to tug them down & as soon as the waste band of them passes over my now exposed penis head I ejaculate in front of him - without him even touching my penis.

At this point I’m super embarrassed & having PNC & just want to get out of there. I say something like -‘I dont think will work & out on my clothes & leave.

The thing is, I find this super hot & a turn on - but PE wasn’t one of the kinks him & I discussed so I just assumed he wanted to do stuff to my cock & me to last longer.

The thing is, if I could meet someone turned on by PE or a HFO I’d want to repeat sessions like this over & over & have someone into seeing & making me cum hands free or super quick. It’s a kink of mine, but always have to hide it because can’t seem to find likeminded person turned on by that.

I like the thought of them being turned on by it, encouraging it, & them knowing I’m turned on by it as well… I don’t like someone who may be disappointed, although someone who would humiliate me about it post ejac is part of what turns me on. Anyway, I guess it’s complicated & just wanted to share this true story & DM is open to anyone who wants to talk about it