My wife and I have been open for the last two years after a decision based on her needs and broadening my and her's horizons. She has slept with many other men in this time, namely older professionals. She has gone from a shy reserved woman to very confident and brazen. I have seen her do a LOT in the last two years with other men. I've been happy she's happy and she's the most sexually satisfied she's ever been. She has been very clear that she loves me and that our love is seperate from the "rough & primal" sex she has.

I have tried to keep my embarrassment in check even though objectively a lot of this has been intense to watch and listen too. She has never blurred the lines with our personal lives until recently at a work function of mine. The individual in the story isn't at my company but works in our industry. My wife accompanied me to this party and immediately asked me who he was.

This man owns his company, never married and very successful and confident. Looking back on it he definitely was her type and I was not careful enough. I do not personally get along with or like this guy, but can be professional. I still remember when he and her made eye contact and I got an uneasy feeling but introduced her nonetheless.

I had to talk with other clients, and I wound up losing track of her by the end of the night but they were both gone. I got a text from her that she met someone but didn't say who and that she would text me in the am, something I had gotten used to by this point. It never crossed my mind it was him until the next morning when I picked her up.

She texted me a long text in the am describing what had happened. I cannot begin to describe the shock or embarrassment I felt when I pieced it together. I have been open to a lot but this was a whole new level of Humiliating for me.