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My gf and I are still pretty new to having sex, but I think we are slowly figuring out what we like. Usually I’m sub, she’s dom, we like cowgirl mostly, etc, and we are FINALLY getting better at orgasming from penetrative sex more consistently. It is usually mostly oral but nonetheless there’s improvement.
Anyway, this week my gf and I research were searching up some new sex positions to try, and we got curious another something called “lotus”. Our thinking was that because we meditate a lot together, this position would be less strenuous since it involves crossing my legs and her sitting on top. Although I kind of enjoyed when we tried, anything more than when she grinded on me a bit hurt alot. We are pretty determined on this one (maybe we are just being stubborn?) to make it work but it doesn’t seem to be doing well except for grinding because it hurts my balls when she tries to shift up and down. Im hoping we get better at it, hopefully will try something new next time we try this sex position. I’m hoping that one day she can move up and down without much interference and me being in pain. Thank you for reading, I have 0 people to talk to about my sex life 😅