I’m jay. 39 married for 15 years. I’m in the military and currently away for a while. I found out a few months ago about how my wife was when we were separated. The stories have opened up a new kink for me that I never thought I’d have. So here it goes. I’ve been finding guys there where she is, and having them try to hook up with her when she’s out to see if she bites. I tell them her likes and interests and where she is when she’s out. In return they send me pics and tell me what went down. It’s been an extreme turn on!! I’ve only done it a few times but it’s been rewarding. Definitely looking to have that conversation with her when I get back. She’s been hinting at the lifestyle for years.