Earlyish in the days of online dating, I got very good at it. A lot has changed since then, but I had it down to a science.

The key was being a good conversationalist and having a sense of humor, but not turning the topic to sex too fast. I didn't want to waste my time or anyone else's so I would be transparent in terms of what I was interested in.

I was keenly aware of women's reactions to horny dudes online. I made sure I wasn't creepy. Generally women would either politely decline or show some curiosity.

A line that worked will was "I'm just looking for some help with a little fetish of mine." I think that line prepared then for the worst, thereby making my "fetish" not seem so crazy. Depending on my mood I'd say I was looking to titty fuck, have someone watch me, or give a facial.

That certainly got the conversation going and of course Id ask what they might be interested in. From there I'd either invite them over or arrange meeting over a drink.

In my first four months I met three women and had a sexual encounter with each. This gave me a lot of encouragement and I got better and better meeting people, and also stayed in touch with many I had either met or talked to. I actually had a spreadsheet to track who I was talking to.

My success rate keep increasing to the point that around eight months in I could be quite picky and have an encounter every week. I didn't want to have sex with that many women so about two thirds of the time it was only things like masturbating together, watching me, oral etc. Often we'd have sex the second time we met up.

I became good at predicting what someone might be interested in. For example, older women (older than of want to have sex with) were quite eager to watch me jerk off and bigger girls liked titty fucking. I'd save the most effort to fuck younger attractive women. I travel quite a bit and bring in a nice hotel seemed to be an accelerator for all.

One weekend stands out, I had three dates which included: two first dates and one second date, two fucks, two tit jobs, three blow jobs, one skinny dip, four orgasms, and two facials.