I travel for work and cheat on my husband whenever I do. I meet men where I go or sometimes find someone on here and get to know them if they are in a city I'm going to. I have met men from all different areas and despite submitting in the moment and having incredibly good sex on my trips, I am still the one calling the shots.

I meet up with one guy on the other side of the country. We had a great time it I texted him I wasn't feeling a second date. We had talked for weeks and he knows my history. I have shared a lot of stories and kinks with him. Sometimes it doesn't click.

I text him this the next day and instead of any kind of confirmation I get a video of us having sex in my hotel room. I was so carried away I didn't notice it. He must have set it up when I was in the bathroom. It is an extremely graphic video. His face is blurred but mine is clear.

He texts me "bad idea" and we need to talk and that he is downstairs. I freak, as I am truly helpless in this situation. All of my bad decisions caught up to me and I finally messed with someone I shouldn't have. I rush to the lobby angry and afraid but I need to confront him.

I see him sitting in the lobby with two other men I don't know, but they are clearly friend's because he is having a beer with them. I freak out and it starts to sink in. These are friends of his and they had seen the video. Humiliating. I didn't know how I could talk my way out of this now.