One secret I want to share is me and my ex gf were friends with benefits for about 15 years throughout several different relationships. We first got together in our early 20's. We had a lot of fun and she gave the best head in the world. She would just keep sucking until she sucked out every last drop of cum out of me and my eyes rolled back in my head and my legs twitched. It was like she had dick sucking super powers or something. Or as us guys call it she's a "super-head". If giving head were in the Olympics, she would win the gold metal. She's also a nudist even though she probably doesn't know that it's an "ism". She just doesn't like to wear clothes and she would just take off all her clothes when she comes into the house, when most people just take off their jacket. So it was fun having this girl naked all the time that gives amazing head.

So she started getting frustrated that I didn't have any money and couldn't afford to move out. She then ran off with her brother in law. I was hurt at first but I realized that it was a blessing in disguise. Because she was a single mom, was mentally unstable, and also had an alcohol and drug problem. I was just blinded by the head at the time and didn't realized that even though she was fun and gave great head, she wasn't someone that you can make a life with.

Things didn't work out with her brother in law and she wanted to get back together. I told her that I just couldn't forgive her. She then said that she just wanted me in her life and if we could at least be friends. After I stopped being angry I agreed to be friends.

I then moved on to this pretty girl that wasn't crazy and didn't have all these problems. The only problem was that she didn't want to give head. I told my ex that was still hanging naked in my house and she said not to worry that she would take care of my needs and give me the head that I wasn't getting from the other girl. So it worked out for me because I got everything else from the other girl but was still getting the super-head from my ex. I'm not saying I did the right thing, but you live and you learn right.

Then I remember I got my first car and my ex said that she wanted us to be the first to have sex in the car. She didn't want another girl to get that honor. We did this with every new car I brought. So we also were having sex too. She said that she didn't want to jump from guy to guy and we could have sex so she could get off and she could then take her time to find the right guy. I also then broke up with my new gf and I could also have sex with her until I found the right girl.

I think back on it now and she really helped me a lot. Because even though I struggled to get girls, at least I wasn't alone and depressed like a lot of other guys were. I still had someone to give me sex and to cuddle with me when I was down. I also was still getting my needs met. So if a girl wasn't acting right, I had no problems telling her to fuck off, since I wasn't sexually dependent on them. Every time a girl flaked on me or something I just called my ex.

I also remember one period where I was determined to be the best at eating pussy. I figured that since I wasn't 6 feet, didn't have much money, and I don't have the biggest dick out there, that at the very least I needed to be very good at eating pussy.

I told my ex and while she assured me that I was good at eating pussy I just needed to be the best I could be. So she let me practice on her. She let me try different techniques and she gave me feed back on which one she liked best. I was checking to see what made her cum faster and what made her moan the most. We also tried different ways like her sitting on my face, and 69 because remember the pussy is upside down in 69 so it's different.

I also found out that the tongue is a muscle so I wanted to practice a lot so I wouldn't get tired when I was eating pussy. So I was eating her pussy almost everyday and for a long time. She would cum, I would give her a minute and I would start again. She let me do it as much as i wanted. It sounds funny but it's not like I could ask another girl. She would look at me like I'm insecure or something because we all know that men are expected to just figure everything out ourselves, and if we can't something must be wrong with us. Lucky for me I had her to coach me and practice on.

Then I got another girl and she kept telling me how good my pussy eating skills were. She even told me she was bragging to her friends about it. Yet this girl had the same problem too that she didn't want to give head. So I still had to go back to my ex to get head. She was also trying to play games like withhold sex, but that didn't phase me because I still had my ex. So she would act up and I would just get it from my ex until she came to her senses.

I also wanted to have fun and do crazy things like go to nude beaches and go to swingers clubs. My gf wouldn't do anything like that so I just went with my ex. We had a lot of fun. We kept on like this even if I had a gf and my ex had a boyfriend. This kept on for years.

I really don't know why everyone doesn't have a friend like this. In my opinion we should be able to help our friends sexually. It really helps and it's better than running around sleeping with different people. I had another female friend once and she told me that she was lonely and horny. So I told her that we could have sex until she found someone. I tried to explain how it could help her and how she then would be able to take her time and find the right man instead of having to jump on the first man that came along. She just laughed and didn't take the offer. So I guess not everyone can have this arrangement. But whatever there lost.