We have had a couple MMF encounters to date and it's been amazing. To step back a bit I'm Bi (Pan actually but so many people have no idea what that even means ugg), I'm ENM/Poly and this is with my GF. My wife is no longer interested in sex and was the primary reason I'm now ENM/Poly as she talked me into it. I had been monogamous with her for almost 20 years until about a year ago, that's when a bunch of the fun started ... but maybe those are stories for other posts!

Back to the task at hand, I've decided that life is too short to wait for things to happen so I've taken matters into my own hands. She has been talking about trying to play with a cub (on her own and/or with me) but we have not had great luck on all the usual dating sites. LOTS of scammers, bots, fake profiles and creeps that just want to collect likes or have instant hookups. They are not all like that, but OMG you have to wade through a lot of them to actually find someone real. I'm sure I'm preaching to the choir here ...

So I decided to adjust some of my man-on-man dating profiles looking for a Bi third, and last night on Scruff the cutest M26 pings me and not for the first time. I know that she will be absolutely into him and to be honest so am I! He's super cute and the perfect definition of a bear cub (I'm a full fledged bear LOL). I had never thought that much about someone so much younger than me, but with all the excitement the GF has had over the potential it seems to have also gotten me excited about it. Him and I have been chatting non-stop since last night and things seem like they are going to click. Him and I are having a coffee date tonight ... does anyone wonder what the chances are of a BJ in the parking lot? I think they are quite good!

Hope this is enough of a confession ... there will be more! Decided I needed to share here with all of you!