Hubby has been in the military for some time now and it is something that I knew about before entering the marriage. During his second deployment he was gone for several months and before leaving we were lucky enough to get pregnant. We were both so happy. After leaving for his deployment, thinks became hard. We lived next to an older couple who also happen to be veterans and they were super helpful in checking in on me to make sure I was doing okay. One day the husband next door checked in on me but I didn’t know he had come by. I was in the back with headphones on getting tan and I had no top on. He walked towards the back and happen to walk in on me. I felt embarrassed and he apologized. This lead into him coming to check on me more often and one day he checked on me I was just in mybunderwear and t shirt and at this point I had gotten super comfortable. One thing lead to another and we hooked up. We hooked up multiple times per week and hubby had no idea.