I've been married for 13 years. My wife has had a couple different long-term affairs and has had a number of one-night stands sprinkled in. I've had to find out about the affairs through piecing together evidence and then confronting her, but she has admitted a couple of times to one-night stands when she's had alcohol and we're having sex.

For a long time now (7-8 years) our sex life has been very minimal. Currently we have sex probably once every few months, but I know she's actively having an affair. While I was doing some snooping and trying to find information about her current affair, I stumbled across some old information in her cloud from a 2-year long affair she had from 2014-2016. I found a lot of nude or semi-nude selfies that she sent him. I found videos of him jerking off that she saved. I found a few videos of them having sex and of her giving blowjobs. I also found a huge amount of texts and emails that she felt the need to save, a lot of which is really emotionally difficult for me to read because they discuss me, but a lot is sexual in nature too.

Since finding this content about 10 days ago, I've been jerking off about 5-6 times a day at least looking at the pictures/videos and reading their conversations. I've saved it all to my cloud, in case she somehow finds I've been in hers and deletes it. Every morning since finding this stuff, I've been finding my wife's used underwear from the day before, sometimes with cum in it from her new affair, and smelling them while I jerk off for hours looking at her getting fucked. It's pretty torturous for my emotions, but I just can't stop at the moment.