TLDR: Sex life got stale, then got better when I became a voyeur behind my wife's back. Now she knows and encourages me!

Like so many others, our (M41/F35) sexlife really cooled off with the arrival of our first child. It took nearly two years to regain any new sense of normalcy, and was considerably lower than before. So this summer we had an open honest conversation about ourselves, our expectations, and our promises to do better. Well it started out great, but leveled off again fairly quickly. The one thing that stuck was our teasing each other with gif's when one of us was in the mood. I started to notice her gifs were always more amateur looking, natural, rough quality vs professional porn.

I started to indulge in more amateur sites, Reddit, Pornhub Community, etc... it woke something in me. I would edge all day at work just to come home and ravish her. I would tease her from the next room, or while she was out. It kickstarted our sexlife to a level it's never been! For the last month, we've been up late, counting orgasms to try and reach new highs. She begged to know where the energy was coming from. I told her I'd found some new things, but I was hesitant to tell her the full truth.

Eventually, after a particularly spicy show on Reddit, I got her off in a combination of ways I hadn't before. Exhausted, she asked again, and I told her everything. She said she didn't care, it was worth the results! We cleaned ourselves up, climbed in bed, and she was quiet, too quiet. She told me she didn't want to go back to our old stale life, and that as long as I followed a few rules she wanted to keep going.

1. No real names.
2. No specific locations.
3. Always online, never in person.

That's it! It got me so excited I called off work the next day! I've been looking for amateur exhibitionists nearly non stop. I want to find other adults who fit the voyeur/exhibitionist lifestyle. I'm not looking for onlyfans/fansly/manyvids etc... any direction would be welcomed! Or are you looking too?!