I (25/M/🏳️‍🌈), have been involved in the kink community for years, going on a decade soon. I'm pretty open about most of my kinks and fetishes like Bondage, being locked in Chastity, being humiliated, objectified, and degraded. But some of the stuff I fantasize about and do, can be borderline unsafe. For Example, one of my favorite things to do is let guys handcuff me to a tree or pole in one of Chicago's cruising parks, blindfolded with an O-Ring gag in so that anyone who finds me can facefuck me. Or like finding guys to come over and put me in my straightjacket or sleepsack before work, throwing me in my closet, and leaving me to struggle until they get done and come to free me. I've even had a guy keep me bound, gagged, and in Sensory Deprivation in the trunk of his car during his work shift before. I wish I could become a storage object. I'm a side, so despite being gay I don't like to fuck or be fucked. This kind of insane kink is how I get off. I've even fantasized about being buried alive in a box before (with ventilation ofc).

Something to add to this, I practice RACK (Risk-Aware Consentual Kink). I understand risks associated with what I do, and always take mitigating factors to protect myself and my play partners.