Basically I used to work with his mom 8 years ago and we were really close despite having a 20ish year age gap. We worked together 3 years so we got to know each other well and I even started meeting her family at one point. I was only a few years older than her oldest daughter and she had a middle daughter plus a son who was the youngest. I visited her house once or twice for dinners and did paint night with her and her daughter. I never spent too much time with the son, and he was no where near my radar because do the math—I’m not about that. But I knew of him and had exchanged hellos etc.

Fast forward to today and my friend and I have lost touch. We work different places now but we still have each other on social media despite not really interacting. I’m mindlessly swiping Tinder when I see her son on my screen. I recognize him immediately but of course he’s 22 now. I had to swipe right because it was honestly funny and I really had no intentions. I just needed to know if he had swiped right. Well he did and after I asked if that was an accident and found out I was part of a mass swipe, we had a good laugh about it. It’s not often your mom’s friend messages you on Tinder.

Somehow a full on conversation ensued and eventually there was a slight sexual undertone to the messages. Very flirty. My immediate thought was this is wrong and not an option I should entertain. But the conversation was good and I started getting really into the idea of it. He was funny, charming, mature. I was getting so horny even though it’s such an ethical gray area. Against better judgment, I gave him my number and told him I’m going to bed after a small tease about fucking someone older which made him admit he’s horny too.

Now I really want to fuck him even though it seems wrong. The thought has me really worked up and I don’t know where this is going but it makes me feel really dirty.