Hello, so I’ve chatted with married woman and met up with a few in my life, it’s just a thing I guess but they’re all just not getting any sex from marrying an older man, the other he was cheating on her, and the other ones I just talk to, all on the internet.

I still date and talk to younger women but there’s something easy about talking to married woman with no pressure, just have fun (sometimes teasing) conversations and deep conversations. I work with a bunch of women in their 30s, 40s, 50s since I work with adults with autism it’s mostly woman.

Today however I was with a client volunteering at a birthday place with my client when this beautiful dirty blonde woman in her 40s (Altho her son is older than me) I’d guess came in (I’m guessing also in my field with a client but she’s in a diff company). She as well knows some of my client and his family, so she says hi to him and I say hello, at first the four of us were kind of awkward, but she tried to keep up convo with me and the client and her client. I don’t know why because she talked fine to the girls there. So we chat and figure out we live pretty close and she goes to the same gym as me. (So does a bunch of other people).

I tease her some about keeping up with the work but focus on my job, we also at one point talk about her working at a local school where she helps kids, she asked if I was looking for another job, and mentioned me possibly working there and being good with the kids. She also mentioned seeing me at the gym later that day, and asked to add her number for the possible job.

Overall she mentioned her husband once. Anyway we work together and we all exchange goodbyes at the end and she says they may be coming back next week.

Later I text her “Hey J, I’m probably going to the gym at 3:30, if not lmk when you’re going next maybe I’ll see you at somepoint” her reply “Sounds good I will probably see you” and then “I have to skip the gym today. But I know I’m going for sure tomorrow I have some running around to do.”

I said “Wow skipping out on me huh lol”

Her: “I guess I have to make it up tomorrow” then said “I think next week client wants to go back to the volunteer birthdays. I’ll show you on the website where to apply.” Then said “You could most likely find it without my help I’m sure.”

Me: “I can, hust can’t come up with another excuse to be able to talk to you after the gym tomorrow.” Then “Just**” I misspelled just incase anyone saw so it was the last text.

She said “sounds good”

Now I don’t know what to think because I thought my last text was atleast alittle bit flirty and don’t know if I should continue to pursue or just lay it low so any advice would be great. Thank you all