let me clarity that i am ONLY looking for F (and T people for being nsfw friends) not cis dudes, u flood my inbox and im sick of getting my hopes up to see its some dude. just respect what the person puts in their title for posts!
hey yall, zach here!
this is a long one so buckle up, but heres a guide if u want to skim or skip to whats relevant to you 1. nsfw friends (online) (i.e. swapping, sexting) 2. fwb 3. relationship 4. kinks, limits, etc 5. about me
i am an anxious person so if we do chat im sorry in advance if i come off as hesitant or,ย the opposite, smothering u. im just nervous. still not over the awkwardness of sexting despite being on this app for months. i have been known to fall off the face of the planet to from time to time so dont worry if i dont get back to you quickly. its a me thing not a u thing.
- if youre looking to be nsfw friends. all im looking for is something casual. where we can sext and send pics/vids to eachother randomly. even without even asking for them if youre comfortable with that. we chat about both sfw and nsfw topics though
i havent been on call, but im not opposed to it we just need to get to know eachother first before id be comfortable enough to do that.
only reach out if youre serious because i want this to be a long term thing. a genuine friendship where we occasionally...or hopefully frequently, send eachother hot cotent. preferences on the frequently ๐คญ
the one thing i ask is u must be willing to share pics and vids of yourself. doesnt even need to have face. text doesnt really work for me on its own, on my end only tho if u want i can text back. i just heavily prefer texting adding to the experience than being the experience.
but the #1 overall thing for me is comfort. i NEVER want someone to feel uncomfortable, when chatting with me. i may ask u to send but if u arent in the mood or arent comfortable sending id rather u say than to ghost me or send it anyways.
i am always open to making new nsfw friends so if u r a F or T and see this later u can still message me. because, to be honest, im always horny. and im always looking to make new friends.
2. if youre looking to be a fwb. what im looking to find is someone to get intimate with. not looking for a one and done, but someone who i can get close with before ditching my v-card. if anyone has seen Mushoku Tensei Season 2, u know how i feel.
again, sex is not only about the feeling, but the intimacy, which is what im mainly looking for.
i would love it if it would become a relationship eventually, but if we decide to stay friends thats great too. so no pressure. i just dont want any awkward feelings towards eachother.
ik the whole point of fwb is no strings, but if i dont feel comfortable and/or close with u it just aint happening. which means there will have to be some strings.ย
i can't host for sex, but can for just hanging out. i do have access to a car most of the time so travel shouldn't be an issue.
3. if youre looking to be in a relationship everything above applies. some of its already a given though for relationships.
physical touch is my love language, and i will probably want to be around you as much as i can. and be in contact as much as i can. skin to skin is by far the best feeling especially when cuddling. but a cute pair of pjs or an oversized shirt will never be frowned upon while cuddling.
dont be suprised if i show you off and parade you around btw. im probably just so happy to have someone.
the reason im also looking for a relationship on this side of reddit is because im a very sensual/sexual person. and im looking for someone who at the bare minimum is ok with that. hopefully youll indulge in the horniness with me, but youre not expected to answer my every sexual need. although it would be nice๐. ive always been a hypersexual person, even before i knew what that meant.
ive also struggled with anxiety and depression for a long time, i hate always feeling so alone. it would be nice if you understand what its like, so we can help eachother when one of us is down.
really im looking for the hori to my miyamura. if you get that reference.
4. sexually, im into a lot of things. i like boobies the most, theyre just fun to play with and look at. pussy is my #2 fav thing, but thighs and ass are always nice.
if u r alt btw. what can i say raven and gwen were my childhood crushes.
I LOVE cuddling, its one of my all time favorite things to do if u want to chat about that. or fit that in if we meet in person.
im a switch (d/s lean changes depending on how im feeling) if u have a preference, pls lmk.
my kinks: watersports & anal r musts creampies, breeding, free use, incest, cock warming, pregnancy, and nudism are all nice to like but not necessary.
scat also falls under that list but its not my fav. if youre into it then i can groove with that. if youre not, we can leave that behind. i just like seeing stuff come put of butts, poop just happens to be the most common.
my limits: cbt, orgasm denial (receiving), being cucked, real rape (cnc is fine), gore
if you dont like something i like know i do not expect u send or talk about anything you dont want too. its all about comfort remember. just give me a heads up of "hey i dont like this" or "im not comfortable sending this" when we first start chatting.
if i dont have something youre into listed, feel free to bring it up and ill tell u my thoughts. im super not judgemental, unless i think youre rude or scamming me, so please dont be afraid to bring it up. nothing really takes me out of the mood, just messes with the groove yk. we can always find the funk again, so dont worry about it.
5. im a very sensitive person, who over thinks a lot, and may or may not be a tiny bit touch starved... and needy... but whos to say, maybe im not.
i love a lot of things, anime, video games, music, being with friends, movies, comedians, sleeping, cooking, and i love love.
i say nb, but im actually genderfluid. im amab, before you ask. if u dont know, it means i have have the plug, not the outlet. and if u dont get that, it means i have a pp not vag.
physically im on the plus side, but looking to improve. 5'10" ~240 lbs. former athlete, but nerdy. i have "nice colored" brown hair, wear glasses, blue eyes, white. been growin out my hair recently too.
if youve read this far please have your favorite animal emoji in your message. it shows me thats youve read everything and know what im looking for. it honeslty helps a lot to know youve actually read what i wrote and in-turn ill be more likely to respond.
CHATS & PM'S ONLY. PLEASE. I DO NOT RESPOND TO COMMENTS. and please put some effort into your message too. even a little goes a long way.
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