I'm hoping to find a submissive who is looking for someone to chat and explore kinks with. Not necessarily looking to create a formal dynamic, as much as someone to talk about kinks with, connect on a sexual and intellectual level and get to know each other and ourselves better.

I have experience as a Dom online and in person and it's been a while since I've engaged in either and really just looking for some element of BDSM in my day to day.

I'm open to building scenarios, play sessions, chatting, light roleplay, whatever really. But more than anything finding someone to bond with about our kinks and turn ons and having an outlet for them.

Im 40, 6'3" around 190lbs.most people think I'm like 32 and are surprised when they find out my age. I'm single, I have a good job. I love the outdoors and enjoy camping, backpacking and skiing as much as a night in with wine, a fire (if only I had a fireplace) and a good TV show, movie or music. I'm just as nerdy as I am outdoorsy. I build my own PCs, love techy gadgets, video games and a good ergonomic desk set up.

Im generally into D/s dynamics that has a place outside of the bedroom as well. That doesn't have to mean 24/7 TPE, I just think it's fun when some aspects are at play even when we go to grab coffee. The fun part is figuring out what those are

As for a specific list of kinks, I'm into orgasm control/denial, outfit control control, sexual and non-sexual tasks and service, bondage, choking, watersports and bladder control, playful name calling, mild humiliation, edging, wearing toys out, asking permission for regular activities, protocols and behavioral guidelines. And I'm very interested in and open minded to your kinks, so if I didn't list something, tell me all about it. My only hard limits I can think of are blood, knives and scar.

If you've read this far, send me a l chat and tell me about yourself and what you are looking for. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.