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Hi! I lost my virginity a month shy of 24. I was raised Catholic and had it drilled into my head that any sexual activity before marriage was a bad thing, and I felt tremendously guilty for masturbating and even for my oral sex experiences with girlfriends (not guilty enough to stop though!).
I also had some bad luck with relationships in my early twenties as I was still learning to navigate the waters. Finally, at 23 my first and formal girlfriend (we dated three years prior), who was also a virgin, and I decided to do it with each other. It was a little awkward but still fun and felt amazing.
Here are possible discussion topics:
Why did you wait so long? Was it common in your friend group?
At what age did you lose it? Or are you still a virgin now?
How did staying a virgin so long affect your confidence in bed?
How did it feel emotionally to make a man cum for the first time?
What were you willing to do with partners that was not intercourse? Oral, anal?
Physically, was your first time painful for you, pleasurable, or a mix of both? How about emotionally?
Iām really looking forward to connecting with someone who experienced something similar! Please include age in first message.
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