I'm incredibly submissive, but my wife isn't dominant, or particularly interested in trying. She does control my orgasms, & enjoy teasing a little - but that's it.

But I crave a lot more control, and I need someone to give it to, & to keep me properly accountable. Maybe I'm just too needy.

I really enjoy training, protocols, and tasks. Being made to do things which aren't for my enjoyment, but for others use/entertainment turns me on so so much. With that in mind, my kinks aren't especially relevant; only my limits. Those are: scat and anything else really disgusting, anything that leaves marks, identifying pictures, anything dangerous or illegal, anything which aroused too much suspicion. I'm also absolutely not going to engage in any findom, OF or anything like that.

Ideally you're in or around Europe, and able to talk through my day. Or at least you're awake much of the same times that I am. I'm sorry, but much as I do enjoy chatting and playing with you Americans, the time zones just don't work for this. I need to be able to ask permissions and tell you how desperate I am, after all; and I need to be reminded "no", and to get on with my work/chores through the day.

Two things that will be especially good for me would be housework, & tasks for my wife. I have suspected AuDHD, and so getting the motivation to do things can be difficult. But I'm very motivated by my Domme instructing me; so make sure I do more chores, and give me tasks to do personally just for her too.

I do quite like to chat as well, though this isn't necessary if you prefer to keep a more detached Ds attitude. Both about life in general, as well as fantasies about what my submission could be like if it could be for real, & how you'd enjoy using me.

Notwithstanding what I said above, I'll still include some of my kinks here. Not all of them are totally possible for me to indulge in for real; but if you can find ways to use them, then I'd love that. Charity, tease & denial, edging, worship, oral, objectification, humiliation, power exchange. And in that context of being used against what I enjoy, & humiliation, some other things which do things to me are foot play, foot worship, domestic service, very personal/intimate service, sissy, feminisation, forced bi, cleanup... 😳😬