I am a 32 year old dom who is practicing this lifestyle for 11 years and looking for a new sub to explore and play with. I prefer online to start with. It can progress to irl if we are both comfortable but it can stay online if that’s what you’d prefer. I am a strict disciplinarian and an encouraging dominant who also has a softer side and like to nurture and care for my submissive giving her a perfect experience where she can grow and be herself.

I don't have any age or physical preferences as long as we match. If you are new and curious about it and want to learn, you are most welcome to get trained. I’m only interested in cis females.

On the kinky side, I like tasks, rules and rituals. My kinks include Petplay, Collaring, Bondage, Flogging, Orgasm control, Wax and Ice Play, TPE, Complete ownership, Branding, Restraints, Discipline monitoring, Degradation and Humiliation, impact play. My limits are scat, blood, needle, permanent damage, anything illegal. I want to list some specific examples that you could expect:

• Orgasm control with edging tasks, this can be especially fun if you're new to edging and we track your progress over the weeks.

• Wardrobe control: I will pick one type of clothing or accessory (choker, necklace, bra/panties, socks...). Each day, I'd pick out the specific item you'd wear or not wear for the next day.

• Training in submission: There's all sorts of poses associated with submission, the most prominent one probably being kneeling. This lends itself well for rituals, e.g., you spend five minutes a day in a kneeling position

As well as your kinks I’m sure you have some limits and you set the limits, I respects them. From non sexual, to completely full on sessions.

About me I will say that I am a writer by profession and I love to make music. I believe in complete privacy and consent is the key to every good dynamic.

If you’re interested send me a little introduction and what you’re looking for so we can see if we click and let’s go from there.

DM me to start a conversation. :)