I'll be honest I am confused lately. I thought I loved being dominant but I feel like I've lost my touch with it and don't enjoy it as much these days. The idea of it and porn of it still turns me on like crazy tho. But I think I'm realizing that my being dominant was always me figuring out what my sub liked and saying things they liked cuz it turned them on and that turned me on. Is that really being dominant tho? Like it wasn't really ever about what I wanted or my pleasure. But kind of because their pleasure turned me on a lot.
Idk man I'd love to chat about this and get some different perspectives! Some guidance from experienced folks would be fantastic. I should mention I am strictly talking about online play and I am a virgin irl lol. If you are interested please send me a chat and let me know your asl and if you're a dom, sub, or switch
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