If you do nerdy group activities or ones traditionally associated with the "good klds" (ie church), you know exactly what I'm talking about - how sneakily, secretly horny everyone is and how much weird sexual tension happens in those environments.

Maybe it's the impact of always having been picked last or the pent up energy from years of hanging onto your virginity longer than your peers, or the often skewed gender ratios and dearth of women and traditionally "alpha" males, but why is it that activities like Marching band, D&D tournaments, church camps and religious colleges and other nerdy pursuits always have such freaky sex dynamics?

Were you in the college Marching band? Which instrument section had the biggest dicks and who cuckolded who? Who was your biggest rival?

Was there a lot of cuckolding in your D&D circle? Or just a lot of horny virgins? Guys simping for one girl gamer and a lot of right hand action?

What about your dorm room hallway? Dare to say your college sports fan allegiance and compare blind against a possible rival?

What about at your religious college or church group? Why were the ones so devout about waiting until marriage always so all over each other?

And how about the nerds from the other side of the political aisle on the other college debate team podium? Think you had a bigger cock than your debate team rival? Ever cheated with the enemy?

Basically let’s talk about how competitive dynamics sneak into all the ‘nerdier’ hobbies, from Marching Band and college life to video games, politics, Church groups and debate clubs. Whether it’s dick size or navigating the strange hierarchy of relationships and competitiveness (cuckolding?), these hobbies seem to create their own social battles. I’m curious—how do these dynamics play out in your world? Let’s hear from the gamers, band dorks, debaters, and political junkies on how competition and sex shapes your nerdy / religious life.

So, what's your nerd hobby / group?

And what's the secret sexual tension that brimmed just behind your innocent facade?