You were so driven, ticking boxes, winning awards, getting into a good college. You were living for the praise and that came with doing all the challenging things before you. Sure you had setbacks, and challenges, but you overcame them all, got a "good job" and started to move into adulting.

Welp, adulting when you shoved away your sexuality and focused on being a smart cookie has thoroughly bit you in the ass now. You get up every day, go do your work at your job, come home, binge watch some new show on Netflix and run the battery out on your vibrator. Lather, rinse, repeat. You live in ground hog day, one show blends into the next, one orgasm the same as the one before.

You make good money, you have a nice place to live, you work out, you eat well, but something deep in your soul is sad and lonely. You want to connect, you want to surrender, you want to let it all go some days and just let someone else drive you and your life. Every now and again when you read some historical fiction, you wonder if women in a misogynistic world had it easier than you. You wonder what it would be like to just be there to please a man.

Then you pack up your vibrator, fall asleep and start another "career girl" day. Ugh, dating sucks, weeks blend into each other. You need a change NOW, today. Are you ready to talk to a caring dom, a feminist ally who gets how hard it is for you to slay and achieve and fight the patriarchy day in and day out? One who knows that you can be that high-achieving boss-girl by day and that needy little submissive sub by night.

Does any of this sound like you? I'm mostly looking for a long-term chat partner who really wants to change her life and find some new exhilaration she can build into it. Looking to learn about your kinks, your anxieties, your hopes and your fears and build a submissive regiment that makes days feel tingly and alive again? Are you ready to see what that might feel like for you?

I know you probably often lurk and never reply. Today should be different. Hit reply. I'm waiting :).