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How do you find meaningful connection in a swamp of the desperate and needy? When most posts on here are blackmail scams, OF funnels or guys desperate to prove how āAlphaā they are, itās not easy.
Those first timers, nervous lurkers and shy explorers, find it so difficult to filter out all the bad in search of the potential good.
Iāve been in the BDSM scene for 30 years, both online and IRL. At 49 not much surprises me, and there isnāt much I havenāt seen. Although my primary preference is for brats, Iāve played with most types of submissive, and Iāve punished, pleasured, guided and mentored a range of personality types.
Every now and again I make a post like this, and you can check out the old ones if you want. I open my chat up to those lurkers, those shy and nervous people. Those who want so much to be in the BDSM world, or have someone to chat to about it, but canāt get through that swamp to find anyone real to talk to.
Perhaps that is you. Perhaps youāve lurked and read post after post, full of excitement and yearning, but scared to take that last step. Perhaps you are neurodiverse and itās complicated to start a conversation with a stranger. Would a no strings, no expectation open door be easier for you?
Start as simply as you feel comfortable with. An āhello, I would like to talkā is all it takes to make that last step. Share as little or as much as you want to begin with. You just need a willingness to explore, and to be brave enough to try.
Iāll answer every single chat, so if you do take that step be patient and Iāll answer you as soon as I can.
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