We all have secret desires, but some want those secret desires to become secrets acted on, but safely and securely. Some never realize them, but others just need a little push in the right direction. And sometimes, just the right person comes along where it is safe to share, and share with, a secret.

I've made it an interest of mine to interact and communicate with women on Reddit who have some unusual kinks that generally as seen for submissive men, but who are interested in being the submissive recipient; ie being guided and directed by a Dominant. One of the most fascinating and fun for me has always been women who portray a tough-girl masculine persona in public but desire to be submissive and feminized in their private life.

This is different than bimbofication; which is generally more cosplay than anything else. I am speaking of women who want to be softer, gentler, demure, dressed up and in general transformed in the privacy of their own home. Most of the kink fiction involves women being publicly transformed and permanently appearing as such; nice fantasy but unrealistic. My interest is guiding the secret and keeping the secret.

What would you want it to be like? How would you want to be dressed, or appear? What type of clothes would you want, what would be the cosmetics and looks that you would have to take on, and would you want any say in it? What would you do at home? Would you ever risk a public presentation, and if so, under what circumstances?

I'm interested in talking about this kink from a lifestyle as well as a psychological point of view. A big part of my interest in this is for women who want the decision taken away from them and to be told to just go ahead, so it's not simply a conversation with a collection of images and links to outfits.

All conversations are between consenting adults doing safe and legal activities.