I haven't tried it yet. But I'm tempted to.... 🤔 I used to go look for guys at bars before I came out as trans and transitioned. It was always so easy to find a guy.

Once I started passing as a man, about a year and-a-half ago though, I feel invisible now. Which honestly really sucks and even hurts sometimes, like it does today. I'm becoming more, and more comfortable in my own body since transitioning and finally start to feel like myself. But I don't catch the eye of the type of men I used to seek anymore.

I always have worn a binder and typically wear dress shirts when I want to look nice. I look VERY gender non-conforming. A bearded, tiny little dude with dainty, dangly earrings, makeup, nails painted... Effeminately mannered. I capture the essence of being a woman, while looking like a man.

But I wonder... What if I were to go to a bar wearing a crop top? The weather is slowly warming up now. I also know I can pull them off too! I'm conventionally cute.

I'd love to sit at a bar and chat with some dudes. Getting more tipsy and bold with conversation like people do with alcohol in their system. For someone to finally wonder aloud if I have breasts.

I shouldn't logically love straight men.. But I grew up, and dated my whole life as a "straight woman." I'm still very much attracted to the same demographic even though I don't look like a woman AT ALL anymore.

I'd love to find some straight guys, or bi-curious tipsy guy(s) at a bar that would find themselves wanting to explore their sexuality with a man like myself whom has breasts and a vagina. I love the thought of turning a straight guy bi. To leave him/them thinking about me or transmen in general and finding themselves turned-on.

This part is kinda sad, but I miss being an object of desire. I LOATHED the attention while I was a woman, as I didn't feel attractive, or like myself at all. But now as a man I miss that attention, but wish it was towards who I am currently now. Obviously straight men don't even look at me anymore. They don't know I'm hiding breasts and a cunt. I'm... Still the same person I've always been. I just look different.

(I also love bi/pan men too, ofc!!)

What would you think if you saw a tiny man with small breasts at a bar? Would you want to explore and experiment your sexuality? Have you ever met someone IRL and been surprised by their anatomy? I'm thinking of going to a bar tonight after work.