We freaked out a little when she found out she was pregnant. I'm from a conservative family from a small southern town where everyone basically knows everyone. At first we told people we used a donor. A lot of people didn't believe that. So she had told a few friends that it happened by accident when we were swinging. That spread like wildfire. There were rumors going around and they all turned out to be true. When she first got pregnant people were telling me I did a good job and giving me high fives. Anytime someone brought up her pregnancy your mind goes to what is this person going to do when he/she finds out. My family stopped talking to me when they found out. My wifes family was supportive and treat the baby like he's family but I know her brothers and sisters have been laughing about it. She was huge when she was pregnant. She was worried in the beginning but then was really happy about the pregnancy. He ended up being almost 11lbs and he has the same complexion as the bull which is pretty dark so there was no hiding it. People found out the rumors were true. Anytime we meet someone they ask if he's adopted and when we say no there is an awkward silence and they get confused. Seeing her breastfeed and knowing that he was the reason she was doing this and is embarrassing and hot at the same time. Another thing that is humiliating is that my wife and I haven't had sex in almost a year. He literally ruined her for me. I do love my son but people's judgments do get to you.