I'm a shy, quiet, 32-year-old virgin. I recently met a woman who was taller than me, which never happens, and even just standing next to her and talking was amazing. The thought of cuddling up to her, and her making me feel safe, protected, cared for, looked after, all of that...stealing her hoodies and enveloping myself in the warmth, and her smell. They're all things that, at least typically, women tend to express a desire for from men. But I don't want to be the bigger protective one, TBH.

Sexual assertiveness is not my thing, but I find it an attractive quality in a woman. Sexual experience, too. Confidence, all of that. Sluttiness, really, but not in a has-no-standards-will-fuck-anything way, more in a knows-she-likes-sex-and-will-go-get-it kind of way. Promiscuity, sexual confidence and sexual assertiveness are typically coded as masculine traits, but they're traits I like in women. And I would definitely want a woman who would take the lead sexually, since I have no idea what I'm doing and a whole lot of insecurity about that.

And I mean, taller than me is probably never gonna happen, which sucks, but I'd like the vibe, at least.

And bringing it all together, I had a friend who was super hot and I was massively into, and she worked as a nurse so she was amazing whenever I was sick. It was an online friendship, not in-person, but she still did an awesome job of making me feel looked after and cared for, got all motherly and all of that, to the point I actually looked forward to being sick. And I really liked that. I also really liked the sexual confidence and comfort on display when she bragged about her husband's amazing cock and all the things it could do to her, then got so turned on she abandoned the conversation with me to go fuck him. Honestly, women's sexual pleasure is super hot to me, which does kinda fuel the I-don't-know-what-I'm-doing insecurity but also like, her excitement over him and the pleasure she clearly got from him was hot as hell.

So these are sort of my formative experiences but I'm still stuck here as a 32-year-old whose only sexual experience of any kind is the aforementioned conversation with my friend, and watching porn alone is kinda awful after so many years of it. I want company, I want someone to take the sexual lead and show me the world of sex while making me feel safe, and looked after, and comfortable.

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