Hi! I thought to offer something different from the typical posts seen here, so while I thank you very much for checking out my post, please read through all of it if you’re going to respond; don’t want you to just message “Hey” and act baffled. :)

So, I’m basically open to anything no pressure, and see where it goes: either platonic friends, FWB, or if even lucky enough, a romantic relationship where my hopeful side prays that me and my soulmate will be together, forever… 🥹

About me

I’m a Pakistani British liberal Muslim (tbh I prefer saying spiritual theist, my views are very nuanced but don’t want to fill this already long ad explaining lol) boi with touches of neurodivergence, anxiety, polymathism, pride, hopeless romanticism, sensitivity, shyness, stubbornness, sagacity, cynicism, charm, compassion, wit, devil’s advocacy, and moral inclinations—a capsule of contradictions indeed. 😂

Nerdy with certain video games (think Nintendo, JRPGs (Dragon Quest, Final Fantasy, Xeno especially)), tech, animals, languages (an aspiring polyglot, learning Japanese currently), psychology, humanities, politics, geography and random trivia (my mum says I know too much lol). Loves affection and cuddles. An INFJ on the MBTI, known as connoisseurs of deep and intelligent, yet emotional and authentic conversation—vibes valued very much from whomever I talk with, which hopefully will also be you too. :)

I like to think I’m a beautiful, precious human being that has his place in the world with a heart of light…despite the adversity I’ve faced. As, while my vulnerability has got me into bad situations where I have been abused—which as a result, these people didn’t deserve my openness—I believe this great strength of mine would be catnip for the right lady to cherish and adore, her worthy of my treasure. I also want be there for you as well when things get tough, giving you what you absolutely deserve…a true friend indeed. 🥰

Random facts:

• I have lots of platonic online female friends whom I love dearly.
• I cosplay and started to make my own crafts.
• Have very high functioning autism & BPD, makes me feel like I’m a normie and a weirdo at the same time, so I tend to just not fit in everywhere I go. Currently in therapy for this.
• Desire to be physically fit and strong, but slacking on that lately. Got to be more manly! 💪 🤣
• For the most part, my vanilla and kink interests don’t really overlap; I keep those parts of my life far away from each other as possible. For example, while I may like some fictional female characters, I avoid seeing them sexually.
• Not so much of a foodie that my life revolves around it.
• Halloween, Christmas and Valentine’s Day is always cringe to me.

Physical attraction is important, so willing to send a pic once I feel comfortable; been told I look and sound cute yet handsome and attractive. But to give a brief overview: light skinned, hazel eyes, black hair, 5’8, on the slimmer side.

Kink stuff (if you want just platonic, feel free to ignore :) )

Feeling too vanilla for kinky people—and vice versa—I mainly seek a vanilla-ish relationship with a kind-hearted, caring, nerdy, top gentle domme that is a bit aggressive in teasing the shit out of me, and giving sensual pleasure. In other words, I’m more of a receiver than a giver, but I’d still be able to ‘give’ a lot with reactions and orgasms, especially because of my high libido.

Not just that…but also a fetish in receiving anything oral, so lots of kisses, bites and blowies is wanted from an orally fixated person…I think it’s a little primal thing I have? Like, being your prey, I imagine my heart racing, as I mumble and moan (been told I moan well 👀) from anticipation and pleasure. While you, are intoxicated with the powers of potentially probing, pouncing, and preying upon me, as I try resisting your allure and seduction. But you just become successful in possessing me as your prize to consume whole… 😳

I’d also want to do what I can to please you, moulded how you see fit. I’m quite masochistic, so it feels incumbent to seek your approval, praise and validation… 🥺

Expressions of male positivity is important, but it’s ESPECIALLY hot combined with perversions and sex positivity. It makes the world a better place when women are open with their desires and sexual jokes, and I even frequent some women-oriented places just to see that lust for us. It feels nice being praised and objectified, and also not having to worry being judged so hard, haha

As I don’t want to ‘fake’ my liking for you, and how honesty is always best policy, here’s a list of things that we may clash on…but I like to think we could work things out regardless:

• being a radical feminist, I prefer to call myself an egalitarian
• excess tattoos/piercings/makeup…I prefer more ‘natural’ looks, not into hardcore goth or dolled up women.
• too much younger/older than me.
• excess cruelty/harsh words. I am very sensitive and I could see myself getting upset, even if it’s just roleplay.
• toilet stuff.
• too focused on PIV sex…yes it doesn’t interest me that much. I feel absolutely nothing thinking about it, which I guess is odd for men?
• anal/pegging…though maybe I can if you convince me really hard enough. 😂
• expecting me to pull your hair/force your head during blowjob. I never fantasise about it, and it’s just such a turn off. Sensual is best! 👍
• feminisation/crossdressing.
• expecting me to ‘dom’ you.
• having a whole BDSM lifestyle…like I said, I seek something vanilla-ish. I don’t want you to be a dominatrix, nor me subservient to you 24/7.

Finally, I’m not exactly sure if I want to experience some form of polyamory in the future, if the opportunity comes. We can still be regular friends (or with benefits (NOT ONS, don’t want to be thrown away)) if we can’t get together romantically for whatever reason.

Conclusion

If I’ve somehow ignited your interest with awe, please be kind, make me feel safe with you, and preferably use the chat function here on Reddit, briefing about yourself what struck out to you about my post with your intentions location age (not just “Hey”, or any low effort)!

So yeah, I hope we can make wholesome, happy memories together, while I continue to be adorable enough for you to keep devouring… 😳