Tonight I am not looking to roleplay. I'm not looking to share kinks. Hell, I'm not even really looking to have a lewd conversation with anyone. I'm looking for someone to learn from and workshop with. Rather than playing characters, I will be my honest self– Flaws and all.

I love erotica and have enjoyed my time on this platform conversing with all of you lovely people. Sure I have specific kinks, but underlying them all is an overarching desire to turn my partner on. What gets me off the most is knowing that I am getting my partner off. Call it pride, but it feels so good knowing that my partner can't keep her hands off herself after reading something that I wrote.

Despite my efforts, I have a pretty big blindspot (as do all my fellow male writers). I don't have a female perspective. I can try my best to empathize with my partner and write what I think she wants to read, but ultimately this is just guess work. Rarely do I get feedback about my strengths and weaknesses as a roleplayer and as a writer. Now I recognize that all women are different and diverse in their tastes and preferences. I recognize the differences between individuals is much greater than the differences between sexes. And I recognize that "the female perspective" is a somewhat nonsensical phrase that reduces an entire group of people into a singular mythical stereotype. That being said, I believe there are (for the most part) universal things that a woman looks for in smut that most men just don't get.

All I am looking for is an honest chat about what matters to you. Maybe we can exchange writing samples and workshop together. Maybe we can talk about story structure, descriptors, use of literary devices. I can answer questions you might have about the male perspective. Would you help me be a better writer? I'm sure my future RP partners will thank you.