Not least of all because I find sex incredibly intimidating. Women who just want to know what I'd do to them don't appeal to me and frankly the idea of doing things "to" women is distasteful. I like women who know what they want and go get it, never mind society's morés around sluts or whatever. Women who are comfortable with their bodies, know what those bodies do to men, and don't mind showing them off (the mere existence of places like GoneWild and OnlyFans blows my mind). Female sexual pleasure is the hottest fucking thing. And that in turn exacerbates the intimidation, because I have no idea what I'm doing, I wouldn't last very long on account of never having been touched before, and my equipment is not at all impressive - all my female friends seem to agree 7-8" is the ideal.

I had a friend I was super into, we were chatting away (via text) and I made a comment about her husband, which led her to start bragging about how amazing he was - including that he was very well-endowed and amazing in bed. Which in turn got her so horny she had no choice but to abandon me and go fuck. On the one hand, I'm into her, so the whole thing was less than ideal. On the other hand, her excitement about him was hot, her openness and confidence and assertiveness was hot, knowing she was experiencing a tremendous amount of sexual pleasure was hot...and she's hot, so it wasn't the worst mental image I've ever had. She's done nude modeling, so I had a pretty solid base for it. And the fact that she's the type to just get naked in front of a random photographer is also hot.

That lived in my head for a while. Then I was talking about it on here, and the person I was talking to pointed out my friend is clearly pretty comfortable with her body and sexuality (which, again, is exactly what appeals to me), and what if I'd been there in person and she'd just dragged hubby into the room and fucked him in front of me. And I'm really not sure how to feel about that at all, TBH...like, again, hot as fuck, but also awkward? And being in the same room as his monster would be seriously intimidating.

So I kinda want to talk about that, or just the idea more broadly, or to any women who feel like they're the sort of women described in my opening paragraph, about anything really (relating to that sort of thing, at least...I don't want to discuss favorite pizza toppings, that's what AskReddit is for).

If this has been up for a while, don't be hesitant to message, I'm unlikely to be so flooded I lack free time for you. If you're a man, please carefully reread the thread title.